| Location | Belfast |
| Age | 75 years |
| Cause of Death | Undisclosed |
| Date of Birth | 03/06/1930 |
| Date of Death | 24/05/2006 |
| Visitors | 29,125 since 01/05/2007 |
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ღ My World Is So Empty Without You ღ
BORN JUNE 3RD-1930
ENTERED HEAVEN
*MAY 24TH 2006*
AGED 75YRS..
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ...L٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉr...Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
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The Bond Between
A Mother And Daughter
Stretches Across Time And Space
Nothing Can Take Its Place.....
♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥
M.issing you my
U.nique and wonderful
M.other xXx
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../___\..***I NOW BEGIN THE JOURNEY THAT WILL LEAD ME INTO THE SUNSET OF MY LIFE**
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+Irish Prayer+
Until we meet again
May God
Hold you in the palm
Of his hand..
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MUM YOUR
Not ever gone
Just moved on.
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The Lord gives one blessing
-unlike any other-
The heartwarming love
of a wonderful mother.
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PHYLLIS IS SORELY MISSED BY HER HUSBAND AND SIX LIVING CHILDREN.AND ALL HER GRANDCHILDREN ,SHE
WORKED HARD ALL HER LIFE FOR THE LOVE OF HER FAMILY.THROUGHOUT HER LIFE SHE WAS ALWAYS CARING FOR
OTHERS.SHE WAS SUCH A DEVOUT AND HONEST LADY 'A GREAT EXAMPLE TO US ALL'.TO US HER FAMILY SHE IS
UNIQUE!!!
SHE WAS OUR ROCK OUR STRENGTH OUR INSPIRATION AND GUIDING LIGHT. WE ARE WHO WE ARE BECAUSE OF OUR
WONDERFUL MUM SHE TAUGHT US HOW TO LOVE,LAUGH, CARE AND SHOW RESPECT, BE HONEST AND TRUTHFUL AND
ALWAYS BE THOUGHTFUL AND KINDHEARTED TO EVERYONE.SHE IS
AND ALWAYS WILL BE LOVED AND MISSED BY ALL OF US FOREVER!!
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MUM IS REUNITED WITH HER LITTLE ANGEL SON WHO WAS BORN ASLEEP(JAN 6TH 1957) SHE ALWAYS
LOVED,REMEBERED TALKED ABOUT HIM AND MISSED HIM HER WHOLE LIFE THROUGH!!SHE IS ALSO WITH HER LITTLE
GRANDAUGHTER EMMA WHO SHE LOVED AND MISSED EVERYDAY.
MUM LIVED HER LIFE FOR HER FAMILY!!
HER FAMILY WAS HER LIFE!!
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"23rd Psalm"
- A new interpretation-
Because the Lord is my Mum's shepherd
Mum now has everything she needs!
Right this very minute, she is resting in a
lush green pasture, beside a quiet stream.
All of her pain has been washed away
and she has received a new body.
Even though Mum walked through
the dark valley of death, she was not alone.
And she is not now and never will be afraid
because the Lord is right there with her
guiding her and comforting her
just as He is comforting me.
Mum is sitting at a table amongst all enemies
and she's being treated as an honoured guest.
Blessings are overflowing!
Surely goodness and mercy
will surround Mum every day!
And she will live in the Lord's house forever.
And that is where we will meet again,
WHEN IT IS TIME!
- Author unknown -
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***OUR WONDERFUL MOTHER***
OH WONDERFUL MOTHER, WE'VE COME HERE TODAY
BECAUSE WE ARE SAD,THAT YOU'VE WENT AWAY
SWEET MOTHER OF OURS, WHAT CAN WE SAY
WE SHARE A SPECIAL LOVE. THAT DEATH CANNOT TAKE AWAY
YOU GAVE US LIFE,AND TAUGHT US RIGHT FROM WRONG
YOU WATCHED OVER US,AND HELPED US GROW STRONG
YOU'RE OUR OWN SPECIAL LADY,LESS THAN FIVE FEET TALL
YOU'RE OUR INSPIRATION, AND A SHINING EXAMPLE TO US ALL..A MOTHERS LOVES A BLESSING,THIS WE ALREADY
KNOW FOR THE GIFT OF LOVE YOU GAVE US,AND TO OTHERS YOU DID SHOW.TO ALL THE SAINTS YOU DID PRAY
AND YOUR UNWAIVERING FAITH,YOU PASSED ON TO US EACH DAY,YOUR LOVE WE SHARED IN OUR LAUGHTER
YOUR LOVE WE SHARED IN OUR TEARS,YOUR LOVE WE SHARED IN OUR HUMOUR,THROUGHOUT OUR GROWING YEARS
SWEET GENTLE MOTHER YOU GIVE US STRENGTH
PLEASE GIVE US STRENGTH NOW TO FACE THE COMING YEARS
WE ARE PRIVELEGED AND HONOURED TO CALL YOU OUR OWN
..FOR NO GREATER MOTHER THIS WORLD HAS EVER KNOWN..
(THIS WAS A POEM WROTE FOR MUM
BY HER THREE DAUGHTERS
IT WAS READ AT MUMS FUNERAL MASS)
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I CAN'T BELIEVE I'VE LOST YOU MUM!!!
FOR I FOOLISHLY BELIEVED YOU WOULD ALWAYS BE HERE
MY MUM MY BEST FRIEND PLEASE STAY BESIDE ME ALWAYS
TILL WE MEET AGAIN ON THAT FAR DISTANT SHORE..........
I'M LOST WITHOUT YOU MUM-LOVE AND MISS YOU WITH EVERY HEARTBEAT XXXXX
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*That Wonderful Mother Of Mine*
The moon never beams without bringing me dreams
Of that wonderful mother of mine.
The birds never sing but a message they bring
Of that wonderful mother of mine.
Just to bring back the time, that was so sweet to me,
Just to bring back the days, when I sat on her knee.
I pray ev'ry night to our Father above,
For that wonderful mother of mine.
I ask Him to keep her as long as He can
That -- wonderful mother of mine.
There are treasures on earth, that made life seem worthwhile,
But there's none can compare to my mother's smile.
You are a wonderful mother, dear old Mother of mine.
You'll hold a spot down deep in my heart,
Till the stars no longer shine.
Your soul shall live on forever,
On through the fields of time.
For there'll never be another to me,
Like that wonderful Mother of mine.
- Author Unknown -
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I Pray The Lord Will Give Me Strength
And Somehow Get Me Through
As I Struggle With This Heartache
That Was Caused By Losing You
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It’s so strange that those we need
And those we love the best
Are just the ones God called away
And took them home to rest
But every time we think of Mum
We seem to hear God say
Have faith and trust my promise
You’ll meet again some day..
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A Letter to Mom
Dear Mom, I'd write a poem for you
If only I knew how
I'd write about your tender touch
Wisps of hair across your brow
The twinkle in your gentle eyes
The smile on your sweet lips
How you'd pretend to scold me
Your hands upon your hips
Oh how I miss the talks we had
The secrets we two shared
Oh how I miss just knowing
How very much you cared
I find myself still reaching ...
For the telephone ...
Then realize ... you are not there ..
And feel suddenly alone
I never got to say thank you ...
For all you did for me
Or tell you what is in my heart ...
And in my memory
Memories are bitter sweet ...
That's what the poets say
I wish I could write a poem for you
To say how much I love you Every Day!!
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~♥~M-O-T-H-E-R~♥~
"M" is for the million things she gave me,
"O" means only that she's growing old,
"T" is for the tears she shed to save me,
"H" is for her heart of purest gold;
"E" is for her eyes, with love-light shining,
"R" means right, and right she'll always be,
Put them all together, they spell "MOTHER,"
A word that means the world to me.
~ Howard Johnson~
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Never Alone
Never think you are on your own
I`d never let you walk alone
When you`re down and want to cry
Let it out, let your tears run dry,
I watch and guide you everyday
So that you can find your way
And when you`re down and in despair
Just call my name and i`ll be there,
Right by your side through good and bad
But you need never feel sad,
Until it`s time for your journey home
Just remember you`re not on your own
We`ll meet again sometime soon
And we`ll be together, like the stars and moon.
Shellie Nicholl
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Missing My Mother My Friend
I lost a part of me today ...
I don't think the pain will end.
The world is a lonelier place to be
Without you in it, my friend.
The warmth that brought joy to all you met
The smile that lit up a room
The laughter that made everything seem all right
Have all been replaced ... silence ... gloom.
I won't say good bye, for we will meet again
In my heart I know that is true.
For now, Rest in Peace, in God's loving arms
While I,dear mum ... MISS YOU.xx
©Sharon Langan
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You meant so much to all of us
You were special and that's no lie
You brightened up the darkest day
And the cloudiest sky
Your smile alone warmed hearts
Your laugh was like music to hear
We would give absolutely anything
To have you well and standing near
Not a second passes
When you're not on our minds
Your love we will never forget
The hurt will ease in time
Many tears we have seen and cried
They have all poured out like rain
We know that you are happy now
And no longer in any pain...
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They say that life is fleeting,I know that this is True
I left this world so quickly,With no goodbye to you.
I know how much you miss me,Your tears fall ever light
The pillow where you lay your head,Is wet with them At night.
I know your heart is hurting,The words we left unsaid
I love you's left unspoken,Are spinning in your head.
The strength that I have carried,That served to make You whole
Remains to make you stronger,Within your grieving Soul.
For you see while you were weeping,On the day I Passed away
At the gravesite near the flowers,Where my loved ones Knelt to pray.An angel came to see me
She took me by the hand,she led me to a kingdom
In a very distant land.As I look down from the heaven
And see you standing there,Your heart so ever burdened
With more weight than it can bear.I long to bring you Comfort
I long to give you peace,I long to hold you closely
Cause all your tears to cease.The joy I've found in Heaven,Goes far beyond compare.
The love that's so elusive,Can befound here Everywhere.
The light is softly shining,There's no storm clouds Here or rain
There's no teardrops found in heaven,There's no Suffering, there's no pain.You needn't be so
troubled
Stay close to God and pray,That someday we'll be Together
One bright and glorious day.So my love,you shouldn't Question,My dear you need not cry
I've gone to be with Jesus....I really didn't die.
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Another day goes by without you here
Alone without you i gently shed a tear
Looking at the mantle clock tick tock is all I hear
Time passes by I am so sad and need you near
I wish all the time that you would just reappear
All I hear these days the tick tock of the clock.
I’m looking at your photograph on the mantle piece
Thinking about you all the time your were so very sweet
I loved you with all my heart I loved you from the start
Wishing you were here with me why did we have to part.
The clock keeps ticking, the clock keeps chiming,
Your photograph on the mantle I am always admiring
I miss you’re smile, that you are wearing,
Why my darling why did you have to go, you were so caring
My heart its is broken please tell me I am dreaming.
Please tell me that I am dreaming and you didn’t leave me,
I love you every second every minute every hour of the day
My love is stronger than ever, every second that ticks away
Why did you have to go, Oh why couldn’t you just stay?
Love you and missing you every second every hour every day.
Author~Kath Woolley~26-7-07
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God gave me the strength
To face the sorrow
The courage to bear the blow.
For what it meant to lose you
Only He will ever know....
My Broken Heart
My broken heart..
Will never mend
So lots of kisses..
I shall send
We think of you..
In a better place
With beautiful wings..
And a smile on your face
Every day is a struggle you see
Trying to cope..
So please help me
How do I cope?
I do not know
My heart is broken..
So that goes to show
I can't except you are gone
I need you here..
Please keep me strong
Stay by my side..
Show me the way
Help me to cope every day
I love and miss you so much..
And I always will
Since you have been gone..
Time has stood still
I think of you in heaven..
With Gods Angels up above
Please my precious Angel..
Watch over me with love xxx
~ Snow ~
(Tessa Wilkinson)
The snow arrived unannounced.
It overwhelmed everything.
Changed the landscape so it was unrecognisable.
No one was prepared.
My grief feels like that snowstorm.
I feel changed, weighed down by the burden.
Trying to negotiate the new environment around me.
Not knowing where I am going.
Looking for familiar landmarks.
I feel cold and miserable and ill equipped in this new place unvisited before.
But I know in time the snow will melt and return the landscape to some semblance of normality.
And I know in time my grief will diminish and I will find my way forward again, back to a world that I recognise, changed, but familiar.
Spring does always come after winter and hope will return.
ღ♥ღ To my beautiful family ჱܓ
ღ♥ღ I just want to let you know
ღ♥ღ I love and I miss you so
ღ♥ღ But I’m also having fun
ღ♥ღ I know how painful it must be
ღ♥ღ I know the hurt you feel
ღ♥ღ I know you feel you can’t go on
ღ♥ღ But I am always near
ღ♥ღ So keep these words in your heart
ღ♥ღ And keep my picture close
ღ♥ღ To remind you I LOVE YOU
ღ♥ღ And I am your Angel ჱܓ XxX
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
Magic Of A Rainbow
I'll never see a rainbow
That I won't think of you;
Though days seem bleak and dreary
The sun is shining through.
A symbol of God's love fulfilled
In beauty, hope and grace;
A rainbow is a mirror
Reflecting His own face.
It arches o'er the mountains
With Heaven its domain;
Its brilliant colors wakened by
The grayness and the rain.
Now may I see the rainbows sent
To ease my broken heart,
Promising His healing love,
Shine through when teardrops start.
Miraculous, magical rainbows,
Blessing the sadness with peace;
God gently smiling and touching,
Bidding the sadness cease.
(Peggy Kociscin)
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
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Tributes For Week Starting 9th November
FOR MONDAY
Your presence I miss,
Your memory I treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.
FOR TUESDAY
Loving you is easy,
We do it every day,
Missing you is a heartache,
That never goes away.
FOR WEDNESDAY
No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why.
FOR THURSDAY
Memory is a lovely lane,
Where hearts are ever true,
A lane I so often travel down,
Because it leads to you.
FOR FRIDAY
Wings Of The Angels
A gentle wind blew cross the land
Reaching out to take a hand
For on the winds the angels came
Calling out a mother's name.
Left behind, the children's tears
Loving memories of the years
Of joy and love, a life well spent
And now to God a mother's sent.
On angel's wings, a heavenly flight
The journey home, towards the light
To those who weep, a life is gone
But in God's love, 'tis but the dawn.
FOR SATURDAY
If I Had One Last Day
If I had one last day
To tell you what's inside
I'd tell you that I'm sorry
For all the times I've lied
I'd tell you that I need you
To hold my hand today
I'd tell you that I love you
I'd ask you, please, to stay
You'd look at me and smile
The way you always would
And say "I'd love to stay,
If only I really could"
Then you'd laugh the way you did
Whenever I was blue
You'd wipe my tears and whisper softly,
"Don't cry, I love you too"
If I had one last day
I'd love you from the start
I'd stop hiding how I feel
I'd say what's in my heart
If I had one last day,
I'd say my last good-bye
And that even though you are far away,
In my heart, you'll never die.
FOR SUNDAY
Cry Not My Friend
When you wake up tomorrow
And I am no where to be found
When you scream out my name
To the emptiness around
When every beat inside your heart
Is skipping and unsure
Cry not my friend for I am here,
Inside your love so pure
When the waves that used to touch our feet
Have gone back out to sea
When everything you once held dear
Was lost when you lost me
When the sun that once lit up your face
Is setting far away
Cry not my Friend for time shall pass,
But my love for you will stay
When age arrives and children play
And pain creeps up on you
When loved ones show you happiness
That your life never knew
When all of your expectations are met,
No matter what the pain
Cry not my friend, for I am waiting
To hold you once again
When beauty in your eyes turn grey
And all of the rainbow, white
When strong undying hearts
No longer feel an urge to fight
When winter snows become more pain
Than beauty in your heart
Cry not my friend, for I am here
And we will never ever part
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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My Dear Family
It's me again from Heaven
With a message from above
Feel my spirit all around you
As I sprinkle you with love...
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I have watched you, as your tears flow
I have heard your silent screams
I know you sleep with visions
Of me visiting your dreams...
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I have come and sat beside you
Placed my hands upon your face
Wiped away the many teardrops
I so wish I could erase...
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I have watched you every day now
Seen such pain within your eyes
I just wish that there were some way
I could help you realise...
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I am happy up in Heaven
In this peaceful loving place
Where I will be here waiting
To welcome you with my embrace...
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You will join me here in Heaven
When your time comes you’ll see
Leave your Earthly cares behind you
Travel on to where you’re free...
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I have heard you ask to go now
But there is more for you to do
I promise I'll be waiting
When your time on earth is through ...xxx
Where Peace Flows Like a River.
Together we will journey
To that land up in the sky
Where the flame does burn eternal
And the soul does never die.
Where the harps are gently playing
As a host of angels sing
Where the road is paved with diamonds
And the golden bells do ring.
Where the path is set before us
Shining brightly as the sun
We will see the face of Jesus
When our final race is run.
Where the peace flows like a river
Winding through the streets of gold
We will dine with priests and prophets
When the key to life, we hold.
Where the flame does burn eternal
In that sacred Promised Land
Where God holds the gift of freedom
In the cleft of His right hand.
Where we'll see the face of loved ones
Long before us, gone away
What a day of sweet rejoicing
When we meet again someday.
Where we'll gather at the river
In our home up in the sky
Where the peace flows like a fountain
And the soul does never die.
Author/Written By: Marilyn Ferguson
� 2004
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♥ From Water Bug to Dragonfly ♥
(Tessa Wilkinson)
The bottom of the pond is muddy and dark
There is fear of the unknown
There is loneliness as things change
There is the desperation of being left behind
Not knowing, not understanding
Watching and waiting
Then the journey comes
Up the stem
What waits beyond?
Sunlight
Freedom
Dancing together in joy with those who went before
And who will come after.
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Angel kisses full of love
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Shooting stars & rays of light
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I see you dancing in the night
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A special star for you & me
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Full of grace & purity
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Showering us in Angel dust
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A special bond i hold in me
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Our love will last for Eternity
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Shooting stars & rays of light
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I see you dancing in the night
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A special star for you & me
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Full of grace & purity
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Showering us in Angel dust
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From the ones we love & trust
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A special bond i hold in me
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Our love will last for Eternity
♥***♥***♥***♥***♥***♥***♥***♥ love always gail & carla XXX
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